Monday, December 28, 2009

My Resolutions for 2009

I wanted 2009 to be the year of happiness - happiness that doen't hurt others. I wanted happiness to be the leitmotif for the whole year. I decided to do some things I love to do. Numbers do figure because I heard somewhere that, resolutions should be measurable.
Visit atleast 6 places of interest, in and around Chennai
Though I failed to make it to the number, I visited a few interesting places: Kamakshiamman Temple at Mangadu, Parthasarathy Temple at Triplicane and Prathyankara Devi Temple at Sholinganallur. There are umpteen places to see around Chennai, which I plan to explore in the next year.
Cultivate one bad habit and get rid of it by the year end
This one seemed crazy on first thought. But it was difficult to identify one bad habit. I could not locate what bad meant. So I settled for one that I didn't love. By my standards, Tea, was the most appropriate one.
Change of project or Change of employer
One of the hardest of the ones listed. Change of employer happened without my influence. Someone acquired our company. I loved the irony - someone else completing my resolution.
Read as many books as possible - Minimum 15
It was a cake walk. I read 28 books and completed 26. More verbiage here: Books I read in 2009
Medical College Admission for my brother
Though it did not fall inside my circle of influence, I made this one intending to be helpful in getting the admission. It has not happened so far. He is giving all out efforts to get enrolled in one of the colleges.
Change my bike
I loved this one. The very thought of a new bike excited me. I bought a white-blue Yamaha FZ-S. I've rode 1300 kms so far and still counting.
Make one new friend
This was the hardest one. I'd prefer making things out of thin air. Yet, it happened naturally. I made a new friend and re-discovered an old one. Chaithanya and Suvetha. Chaithanya is more like a mirror and Suvetha is like a magnifying glass. These people will definitely feature exclusively in one of the posts next year. Hold your breath till then.
Blog atleast 5 posts
Just to keep doing what I started as a time-killing activity. Apart from the weddings and episodes from a love story, I guess others are worth reading.
Learn JMX, JSP/Servlets, atleast 3 frameworks, Websphere, NetBeans, Eclipse with TomCat Plugin
Some techie stuff. I learned Servlets, Spring and Design Patterns. This resolution is still not complete.
Complete Sun Certified Web Component Developer Certification
This one is in progress.
Wow. I just scored 7 out of 10. That means more battles won. Did I win the war? Where is happiness in these things. There is a sense of achievement, fun, completion, definitely. I felt totally depressed for a few months. I was content during the rest of the year. But, where is the happiness I wanted? Happiness is not something that happens when things unfold the way you expected. Happiness is something you don't realise when you're experiencing it. You'll realise that you experienced it when you've lost it. I'm still searching. What does that mean?

2 comments:

  1. I strongly detest "Apart from the weddings and episodes from a love story, I guess others are worth reading"...
    As far as I am concerned the only blog of yours that was good was the one about my marriage..am saying this not because it was about my marriage but simply bcoz it was written well.. You _________ *******

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  2. I just loved this comment. I wanted to make it: "I guess others are also worth reading". But, I'm keeping a low profile on my blog in recent days. I made a deliberate mistake to find out if my target audience are actually reading my blog. No apologies..

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